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#40
The
Joy of Achieving (31/08/02)
By Dr. Robert A. Schuller
The purpose of this
message series "Fill Your Life with Joy" is to show
you how to enjoy life, not endure it. That is why we begin every
Sunday service by saying, "This is the day the Lord has made,
let us rejoice." This is how we put joy back into our lives.
This message is titled
"The Joy of Achievement." Every person reading these
words receive my salute because you have experienced the joy of
achievement. It happened when you took your first step. If there
was a photograph of you as a baby taking your first step, you
would see it showed you smiling, with that look on your face that
said, "I did it! I did it! I did it!"
I don't suppose anything
puts more joy in daily life than when you can honestly, enthusiastically
and ebulliently say, "I did it!" It celebrates achievement.
Remember when you graduated
from the 8th grade? You did it then. When you graduated from high
school? You did it then too. And if you graduated from college,
university or trade school? You did it then too. Maybe you graduated
with a professional degree? You really did it!
I was at a hotel in
Dallas, Texas, a couple of weeks ago talking to two of my colleagues.
We were there on business and a woman who looked in her 40s approached
out group.
She said, "Pardon
me for interrupting, but I recognize you, Dr. Schuller. I never
thought I'd meet you. I have been listening to you since I was
a teenager. You have motivated me to become an achiever in life.
I still watch the Hour of Power every week and we get it here
in Dallas at six in the morning."
"How have I helped
you?" I said to the woman.
"I became what
I wanted to be," she said, "a medical doctor. You inspired
me and I became a psychiatrist. But now I?m full time in family
medicine. Thank you."
I could see the joy
of achievement on her face. That's what this ministry is all about.
We call it good theology because in theology you are supposed
to live a life that glorifies God. That means you produce, are
creative, and contribute to Him.
The core of life is
challenges, contests and competitions. First you have to win the
game by doing what you are best at. Life goes on and pretty soon,
before you know it, you are old. Then you see that life hasn't
changed much. It is still the same contests and competitions,
and the same challenges, maybe now more to do with the bones and
muscles.
But the person who
has learned to accept contests, competitions and challenges is
living life at its core and stands a good chance of saying, "I
did it!"
We had our board meeting
a few weeks ago. Our members come from all over the country. Some
of these people give us time that is invaluable. For example,
there's Walter Anderson, the editor of Parade Magazine. He's a
powerful member of our board, he's articulate, analytical and
perceptive. He's in tune with what is going on in the world today
and he will be a fabulous shaper of this ministry in the next
ten or twenty years. I predict that.
There's J.B. Fuqua,
a powerful corporate CEO of six companies traded in the New York
Stock Exchange. He's living in a league where I don't live. But
he still comes here and gives us tremendous help.
You may say to yourself,
"Wait a minute, I'm not living in that league." But
the truth is that what we are talking about here is not about
what league you are in. It's about what kind of a life you are
living. That's quite a difference.
If you live the life
that God wants you to live, that is all that is expected of you.
The apostle Paul says in Ephesians 2:10, "For we are His
workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works."
When Pope John Paul
was elected Pope (only a few weeks before death took him), people
came to see him, to kneel in front of him and kiss his ring. This
is a very appropriate thing for Catholics to do with the Pope.
There were all kinds
of people in the crowds, from royalty to world leaders and other
dignitaries. And among the royalty and the dignitaries was this
little peasant woman who seemed out of place in that crowd.
When her turn came
to come in front of Pope John Paul, she knelt and kissed his ring.
Then she did something that seemed shocking to those nearby. She
lifted her hand with her wedding ring and offered it to the Pope
saying, "Now you kiss this ring, because if it hadn't been
for this ring, you wouldn't be wearing your ring." She was
his mother.
I salute the achievers.
The mothers and the fathers who haven?t achieved super financial
wealth, but boy, did they turn out some super kids! I salute you,
the producers of the joy of achievement.
Joy is what you feel
when you win an award, when you earn a degree or celebrate an
important anniversary. What makes The Joy of Achievement so powerful?
It is the following things:
1.It gives you ego
fulfillment at its best.
Hear me loud and clear.
There are religious leaders who say if you are ego driven that?s
a sin. Not all of it is necessarily a sin. That is like saying
that if you live as a human being, you are in a path to sin.
Ego fulfillment at
its safest and best is most sublime. We all need to know that
we have value. I need to know it and so do you. A lot of people
feel they don't measure up, they are the people who say, "I'm
just a little person and I don't have big money to give to charities."
That is why we have
a statue here at the Crystal Cathedral of the poor widow dropping
her two mites in the temple as Jesus and the Apostles watch. To
my knowledge, I don't think this story of the Bible has ever before
been done in a statue in the history of Christianity.
Jesus told the Apostles
when he saw the widow giving her two mites, "See her, she?s
giving more than anybody else. Others give from abundance, she
gives all she has." This beautiful bronze statue salutes
the single, largest collection of financial supporters this ministry
has ever had. They are all the people who make small donations
from their hearts and not the depth of their pockets.
Ego fulfillment at
its safest will drive you to be what God wants you to be. Your
ego will be satisfied as you fulfill your divine destiny and your
ego trip is divine. That's life, you need the fulfillment and
you and God together make it happen.
"It is God at
work in you giving you the will and the power to achieve His purpose"
(Philippians 2:13).
2.Honest humility.
That is when you know
you are part of something great, but you didn't do it all by yourself.
It reminds me of one of my favorite lines, "If you see a
frog on a pole, you know somebody helped him get there."
Our ministry's Senior
Controller, Jeff Shaw, asked me recently if I remembered the chapter
"Trumpets Will Be Played" from my book If It's Going
to Be It's Up to Me. I really didn't remember the chapter, but
I looked at it again.
If It's Going to Be
It's Up to Me is the book that talks about achievement and success.
In the last chapter I write words to the effect that say "When
you come to the end of the line, whenever that will be, you will
have achieved and you will be well rewarded. It will have been
quite a pilgrimage, quite a voyage. The Trumpets Will Be Played
for you."
For us, 45 years in
this church is quite a trip. 30 years on television is quite a
trip. You get to the end of the line and you celebrate the anniversary
and what do you see? Your friends waiting for the ship to come
in. They are there with flowers and they have brought the trumpet
players who blow their trumpets as you step down the gangway.
Then the banner unfurls saying, "Welcome Home!"
The first thing you
do is say, "Stop, stop, stop." And you point to the
trumpeters and say, "You are playing for the wrong guy. Play
for them, those people. They are the reason why it?s been a good
trip for me. They prayed for me, they supported me and they encouraged
me."
The power of joy gives
you safe and sublime ego fulfillment, and that leads to the world's
most authentic humility.
When we just had ten
acres of land here before, the Crystal Cathedral had even been
built, we had a parking lot for 700 cars. One day I was driving
through the parking lot with my son Bob who was about 4 at the
time. He was sitting between my legs and he said, "Daddy,
let me drive."
Without waiting for
my answer, he reached his little hands up and grabbed the top
of the steering wheel and he almost stood up as he was trying
to see in front of him. He was steering the car, but he didn't
see that down at the bottom of the wheel, my hands were controlling
the movements.
My son steered the
car into the parking space, with me controlling the wheel out
of his sight. When we parked the car, he looked up at me and said,
"I did it, dad!" And I said, "Yes, you did it Bobby,
but I had my hands at the bottom of the wheel."
"Oh, you did?
But I did it with you," he answered, and I said, "That's
right, Bobby, you did."
Ego fulfillment is
the joy you feel when you have achieved something. Humility keeps
you in the proper emotional balance to make you a totally integrated
person.
3.Humility produces
gratitude.
Now you are caught
up emotionally into how to say thank you. I don't know of a church
in history that has ever gone to the limits that we go to, to
make sure we say "thank you" to everyone who has made
this ministry possible.
The new Hospitality
Center we are building in the next couple of years will be a monument
to thanksgiving. The odds are your name is going to be found in
that building.
Joy power that generates
ego fulfillment, humility and gratitude is healthy. Gratitude
produces the highest level of emotional living. Generosity is
the word that describes joy at its highest.
If you have ego fulfillment,
you don?t need more and more and more. When you have ego fulfillment,
you suddenly realize that you have enough. The compulsion to acquire
more and more is overcome by humility and gratitude. That is when
you are into the "who can I give this to?" mode. And
who wouldn't like that?
Generosity is an unstoppable
emotional expression that comes from gratitude, humility and ego
fulfillment. What does this mean to you? First, recognize your
achievements and give yourself a pat on the back. You can't do
that without lifting the eye and saying, "Thank you, God.
You really love me." Wow!
Then encourage someone
who has a dream. Encourage someone to become an achiever. I read
this line the other day, "The man who says it cannot be done,
should not interrupt the woman who is doing it."
Next, embrace the formula
for achievement. Keep setting goals, no matter how old or how
young you are. Keep setting goals, no matter how rich or poor
you are. When you have no goals, you are dead. Maybe your goal
is just to get out of bed and walk again.
Embrace the formula
for achievement, I have preached it in 31 books but I can sum
it up in three words here: Conceive+Believe=Achieve.
You can do it because
to achieve is simple! Set a goal to fulfill the divine destiny
in your life. I don't know what that is and I have no idea. That
is between you and the Lord.
Finally, make sure
your hearts of heart is in the control of Jesus Christ. Then you?ll
know that you are created, called and commissioned, and you are
being challenged by God to dream the dream that will fulfill your
divine destiny.
If you conceive, you
believe and you will achieve. In my closing of this message, I'd
like to say that success without Christ can lead to hell.
A man I knew had formed
a great corporation. He also wrote a biography telling people
how to do it. Later he watched his sons fight him on corporate
boards. He went through five wives and achieved all the power
that comes with corporate leadership.
Recently, at the age
of 83 he committed suicide by driving his car into a pole. Success
without Christ can lead to hell. Success with Christ can help
you make heaven on earth for yourself and others.
Do you know Jesus Christ?
Have you accepted Jesus Christ? Are you willing to share control
and power with Him? If so, you have learned this lesson well and
you will have an experience called the joy of achieving.
    
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